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If you had demonstrated the grace to stay silent during this pre-planning phase, and simply let the couple openly explore their ideas in their own way, they would learn on their own that a Catholic ceremony might not be possible for them, for a variety of reasons that would be explained by the priest.

Place the container in a location where the temperature remains above 60 degrees Fahrenheit and bright light, such as a south-facing window with lots of sunlight. The warmer the temperature is, with 70 to 75 degrees for day and night being ideal, the faster the bulb will begin growing. Providing bottom heat by setting the pot on a propagation mat may help stimulate growth, especially if you keep your house temperatures cool.

“I don’t know of a single better way to connect to your kids than to listen to their music, really listen, without judgment,” Duffy, who is also a family therapist, told me when I mentioned my music thoughts to him. “If you ask them what draws them to a particular song, sound or lyric, I suspect you’ll learn something about your child’s depth, thoughtfulness, their inner worlds that you have difficulty accessing any other way.”

Dear Caught: One way to begin would be to try your hardest to build a relationship with your daughter. If she seems unhappy “in a hidden way,” then you could start by reaching out to her, checking in, finding out a bit about her adult life, and connecting with her children and grandchildren.

I know we gave our dog a wonderful life and did everything we could for him, and I know so many other people have also experienced this loss, but I’m still swimming in grief and in so much pain that I haven’t given much attention to my relationship with my husband or nurtured him during this time (though I manage to be functional with work and other activities).

She mentioned volleyball tryouts, where I made the team, and she didn’t. Then she moved on to the subject of boys, where one guy she liked started talking to me and never talked to her again. (Also, student elections, which we both plan on running for next year.)

Please, bring this up to your daughter. Don’t overwhelm her with your complicated emotional reaction, but ask her, “Hey, if I can find a nice photo of the two of us from your childhood — and let you pick out the frame — would you be willing to find some space on your wall for it?”